Who is the one being played out?

I am sorry for this super complaining post but yes i am gg to complain. like hell.
who is the one being played out? I said i dun mind gg italy as in venice. and now it became an obligation tt i have to tour italy all over again. I promised coz it is unsafe for a gal to go alone. but was it a confirmation? And who is the one who played me out 1 yr ago and i ended up gg to the states alone for more than 2 months? I am just super disgusted by the tone u said i played u out when i did not even gave tt freaking tone 1 yr back. Karma. understand? Bloody hell.